Be aware.

The self is an ongoing project. Make the best of what you have been brought into and remember we are always becoming who we are until we stop.
Failure to adapt results in extinction.

If we find out who we are, we will want to know how we become who are.

"...To become an individual self with its own unique identity, we must first participate in a world of others that is formed by history and culture..."

Is there a True Self?

How do we remain the same person yet act differently towards other people. We have the capacity to have multiple selves try to account for who we are by reference to others.